With that one word, flipped, we largely agree. Astonishing, I know. I believe Heaven and Hell are "places" our souls end up after our mortal lives end and the decision to believe or not is made final.
For ben312, the only thing that makes you a better person is your behavior; what you chose to do in Life. And that too is relative because you might be pulling the wings off butterflies today and you'd be a better person for not continuing to do so, tomorrow.
I think you want to ask if faith makes you a happier person. That seems to be the point your ex was trying to make. Judge your own happiness in her terms and you'll contiually be asking her if you are happy. Ask yourself.
I believe in God. I have faith. I've acted in faith. I've prayed for stronger faith when Life got hard (cancer anyone?). And I've realized that faith is only proven when tested... which made me pray for less faith when shit got worse. I've not always been happy, but that's an emotion. Faith is a choice.
I too have been through periods where I put my faith on a shelf and forgot about it. Fortunately, dusting it off found it just as good as ever. And choosing that was a behavior that made me both a better and happier person.
For ben312, the only thing that makes you a better person is your behavior; what you chose to do in Life. And that too is relative because you might be pulling the wings off butterflies today and you'd be a better person for not continuing to do so, tomorrow.
I think you want to ask if faith makes you a happier person. That seems to be the point your ex was trying to make. Judge your own happiness in her terms and you'll contiually be asking her if you are happy. Ask yourself.
I believe in God. I have faith. I've acted in faith. I've prayed for stronger faith when Life got hard (cancer anyone?). And I've realized that faith is only proven when tested... which made me pray for less faith when shit got worse. I've not always been happy, but that's an emotion. Faith is a choice.
I too have been through periods where I put my faith on a shelf and forgot about it. Fortunately, dusting it off found it just as good as ever. And choosing that was a behavior that made me both a better and happier person.
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