My wife screwed me again

[ejnight]

Where ever this leads for you, you are going to have to make a decision to GTFO or work it out. If you work it out, you will have to be able to forgive (not forget) all the stuff the addiction brought with it. You need to know if you are the type guy that can do that.

I think the hamster in my brain would keep that wheel spinning about what happened and I couldn't

Great first post. I have experienced this and forgetting is not going to happen. If you think you can deal with it OK. If not cut and run now. Its only going to get worst as you dig in to her other life.

[QUKBMER]

Also you guys are married with or without kids? If no kids GTFO !!!!! My wife and i have always agreed on this saying (once a cheater-always a cheater). It wont change and how long has this been going on? It will be hard to let it go but it would be for the best for you. Get checked out for STD'S and other shit and leave. Next thing you know when she gets back your going to get beat up/ or shot buy some drug dealing thug or by the guy upstairs with his friends or some shit like that because of something she did or promised and or you could end up on The Jerry Springer Show . The shit in this relationship is deep and you need to get a divorce and GTFO while the gettins good for you sake.

[b*saint]

You know I never verified if the number was him or his girlfriend. I should do that first before we blow this up. They did kept using we as in we the family upstairs misses her and loves her.

[QUKBMER]

I would verify that first and if it is true,seriously consider doing what i said only because i have had friends go through it and known other people that went through it. I have never had it happen to me but i wouldnt put up with it. If you guys have no kids its easier also to leave. I dont know if it just because i am older than most people on here (43) but i just dont need drama like that in my life at my age. That is just my worth.

[e30trooper]

WoW! Sucks to hear this man. I guess ( not to sound mean ) But maybe since your allways on a trip , she needed ppl to be with and those kids did drugs, got her hooked. i'd get tested no matter what. Id say fuck it and leave her, this shit is just going to hold you down for ever... personally i'd never trust her again. be safe..

post pix of said GF or GTFO

[der affe]

Refer to my earlier posts and just cut and run. You don't need that shit complicating your life. Move on find someone worthy of the effort if you choose to hook up again.

[Danny]

I ain't sayin she a gold digger.

Hope you had prenups.

[e30trooper]

I ain't sayin she a gold digger.

Hope you had prenups.

[b*saint]

SO this shits been real fun today. Kinda nice to chuckle. I have the whole pill popping population of a small town thinking that Im getting a divorce and moving to San Diego. And that Emily would rather stay on pills than stay married. Haha. Fun shit. I love it. Fuck all them. Next fucker who texts my wife's phone if she wants a "15" Im going to invite over and beat the shit out of them with a bat.

[Redfox]

SO this shits been real fun today. Kinda nice to chuckle. I have the whole pill popping population of a small town thinking that Im getting a divorce and moving to San Diego. And that Emily would rather stay on pills than stay married. Haha. Fun shit. I love it. Fuck all them. Next fucker who texts my wife's phone if she wants a "15" Im going to invite over and beat the shit out of them with a bat.

I'm sorry to hear, I grew up with my father doing this shit. It gets worse before it gets better. But if she's willing to go to rehab and you'll be there to support her all the power to you. I wish you guys the best of luck. Maybe get her number changed so she isn't flooded with all these calls/texts? If the cookies aren't in the jar then you're not tempted..so to speak.

[416stroker]

Go get an STD test. Oxy users are within the realm of needleusers.

Verry true some do slam

[evandael]

SO this shits been real fun today. Kinda nice to chuckle. I have the whole pill popping population of a small town thinking that Im getting a divorce and moving to San Diego. And that Emily would rather stay on pills than stay married. Haha. Fun shit. I love it. Fuck all them. Next fucker who texts my wife's phone if she wants a "15" Im going to invite over and beat the shit out of them with a bat.

I hope you meet the guys. Whatever you do, don't take it too far. But god, I know I want the sense of justice for you.


(from another person who was romantically involved with an Emily)

[b*saint]

lol.

Well I just was looking through her address book and the girlfriend upstairs is still listed in it. So the number I was texting was him!! WTF. Telling a married woman you love them is a little out of line dont you think!?

[LJ851]

just a little. Look closely at everything bro, drugs are usually the tip of the iceberg so to speak, and good luck.

[b*saint]

I cant sleep now. I can't call her this late in detox and people know now she is in it so I can't text my new script to the guy upstairs now to clear anything up. I got a million scenarios in my head. This is my "break glass in case of emergency" scenario.

Give my tools to my brother.
Take back my old job.
Actually move in with my best friend in San Marcos
Divorce and never look back.