My wife screwed me again

[der affe]

Use the time away to clear your heaand take a good look at things.

I am not saying things can't work if she cleans up either. A good friend of mine went through the same thing with his wife except she wrecked her car high and drunk win the kids in it. That was he last straw. He got a divorce and was painted as the bad guy for not sticking with her although he already had dealt with it for YEARS. He took custody of the kids in the divorce and she went to jail and rehab. About a year later she was in the picture again clean and sober. They are living together again and everything is great. She wont even go near pills even when they are prescribed. They have not gotten remarried again yet though, but they plan to. In his case though, there was more at stake with the kids.

You have the chance now to just get out if you want to. Think about some of the stuff I mentioned and see if you want to shoulder what is ahead for you with her. THEN see if she HONESTLY wants to make it work.

[b*saint]

Ok so I changed her phone while she is away to an old verizon phone I had. They took her phone from her before she was admitted so I couldn't see who was texting her. Now I can. The kid upstairs she's been buying shit from ends conversations with "Love ya." wtf does that mean?

Also in my mad stealth way I am finding all her other suppliers. I'm going to give them a tune up.

[parkerbink]

Ask him wtf it means?


Be prepared to learn things you can't imagine and don't want to know.

Hang in there. It will get worse, then better.

[F34R]

This is such a mess, I feel for you Saint. Sorry you have to deal with this shit...I am wicked happy to be single now. I dated my last woman for almost 5 years. I am not looking to be with anyone anymore, just a waste of time.

[b*saint]

Well if they've been saying I love you back in forth for a year, saying "wtf does that mean" is going to throw him signals its not emily with emily's phone. Bro think DEA.

[parkerbink]

You said he is upstairs. Ask him when you see him.

[b*saint]

nah I gotta keep the game going. I hear him on the porch calling his buddies and telling them emily is in detox.

[parkerbink]

Sounds like a soap opera.

[QUKBMER]

How much time and effort do you have in this relationship ? Just curious.

[b*saint]

I met her christmas 2006 and we started dating late jan 2007.

The texted convos all end weird. Like "call me soon." What would that mean?

[Farbin Kaiber]

Run, far and fast. This whole thing is so far down the river that ain't none nobody got an oar big enough to paddle outta shit's creek.

I'm really sorry to hear this is going down.

[nando]

dude, she was fucking for the drugs. She had to of been. That goes too far.

I don't know your wife or your relationship. I just know, if I was in that situation, I'd leave. And I know my wife would do the same.

[Farbin Kaiber]

Go get an STD test. Oxy users are within the realm of needleusers.

[PattonD]

Where ever this leads for you, you are going to have to make a decision to GTFO or work it out. If you work it out, you will have to be able to forgive (not forget) all the stuff the addiction brought with it. You need to know if you are the type guy that can do that.

I think the hamster in my brain would keep that wheel spinning about what happened and I couldn't

[750]

+1 on the get tested part. Pray you don't have something you can't get a cured.