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Girlfriend breaks up with you and two days later she hooks up with your best friend
respectful thing to do would have been for the friend to ask if it was no biggie then you could have green lighted it or not. that's what I did for my buddy when he started having some kind of feelings for my ex. then he told me he loved her and had two kids with her :O
I tried to tell him just to screw her and get over it cuz she was crazy...but whatever he had to learn the hard way.
Das ist nicht nur nicht richtig, es ist nicht einmal falsch!
(although a year after the fact is pretty much a green light I definitely wouldn't end a friendship over that)
yeah, well the door is open for him and he knows that. and he and i do hang out occasionally (read: once every 2 months), but he has pretty much retreated to other friends and does not show a real want to hang out anymore. i think he feels bad since he knows that she was my first real love (4 years) and i havent loved another girl since. very nasty break up.
she got him good. :down:
we all make mistakes. i dont hold it against him. but as i said, it really destroyed our friendship. and that was the real downer.
I tried to tell him just to screw her and get over it cuz she was crazy...but whatever he had to learn the hard way.
lolol. he asked after the fact and even though it hurt me a little to say no problem, i did. i still wasnt over her at that point. i also told him to do what you said.
but he did not listen. and got his heart broken in 2 short weeks. lol.
Women suck. Your friend sucks. The best revenge is to live well. Don't ever speak to her again, not hello, nothing. She fucked you over, she does not deserve your respect, she no longer exists.
Your life sucks right now, it sounds like. Acknowledge that, accept it, you can dwell for a little bit but not too long!
I didn't read a lot of the posts. Look at it this way, you can find someone who will love you for the rest of your life and will never cheat on you. obviously this is not that girl period! so be thankfully that you only wasted 2 years of your life with her. And your friend, well that's harder, he did an awfull thing, but dudes do dumb things when waffleswaffleswaffleswaffleswaffles is involved, not an excuse but keep it in mind when deciding if you want him in your life ever again. Remember keep a healthy mind and try not to fill it with rage or hatred, that can result in a subconscious hate of other women and lead to you misstreating them.
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