I'm not gonna lie and tell you it isn't; it is pretty awesome. It took a bunch of years and a mutual understanding/trust in each other and our relationship to get to where we are now. An open mind helps too.
From the way you reacted to this hot Brazilian stripper and your wife's reaction to your suggestion of a threeway, I don't think you're anywhere close to this point yet. Yes, we all saw that you didn't cheat and it was only lust... blah blah blah... In the end you posted a thread asking the internets for advice instead of going to your wife, who is directly affected, so I suspect those guys with the one-year bet may be onto something.
Man up, talk to your wife. Tell her about your stripperlust, tell her what you think is/was hot about it. If your sex life could use improvement, tell your wife. Tell her what you want to do, and what turns you on. Some of the hottest kinks can start out as something mundane before your imagination kicks in. Point is, talk to her, not to the internets.
Anyways, do whatever makes you happy bro. I'm just a guy on the interwebs with no life experience living in my grandparents basement working my way through clown school.....
From the way you reacted to this hot Brazilian stripper and your wife's reaction to your suggestion of a threeway, I don't think you're anywhere close to this point yet. Yes, we all saw that you didn't cheat and it was only lust... blah blah blah... In the end you posted a thread asking the internets for advice instead of going to your wife, who is directly affected, so I suspect those guys with the one-year bet may be onto something.
Man up, talk to your wife. Tell her about your stripperlust, tell her what you think is/was hot about it. If your sex life could use improvement, tell your wife. Tell her what you want to do, and what turns you on. Some of the hottest kinks can start out as something mundane before your imagination kicks in. Point is, talk to her, not to the internets.
Anyways, do whatever makes you happy bro. I'm just a guy on the interwebs with no life experience living in my grandparents basement working my way through clown school.....


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