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  • xxx-Lost-Soul-xxx
    E30 Mastermind
    • Apr 2008
    • 1953

    #1

    How many times before enough is enough?

    Hey guys, I need some serious help.

    I work for solar city,if your into solar or tesla you know who they are.
    They are said to be the biggest solar company.

    Ive been with this company six months,and everyone is snakes.

    My supervisor is a sexist pig who trys to flirts and grabs me all the time. He wont let me wear my nail polish,makeup and bitches about my hair. OR if i do wear makeup i have to look pretty and be cute. WTF????? btw i have to smell nice as well.

    I thought coming out as gay would have him leave me alone,Nope now he thinks that means he is closer to me.

    My supervisor wastes company time,and resulting me staying longer hours,for free. Ive recorded this and have kept it for a rainy day,but i think that day is coming.

    In my time with this company Ive been stiffed Three times with my paycheck.first 10 hours, then an hour,and now 40.

    I really need this job,but i have no idea where else to look.

    Please tell me im not overreacting,and i need to get out of here asap.

  • Holland
    R3V OG
    • Nov 2008
    • 7176

    #2
    No, you aren't exaggerating, that shit isn't right.
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    • ohthejosh
      R3V Elite
      • Mar 2010
      • 4963

      #3
      Lesbians increases the attraction of douchebags. I say keep recording it but you can cry foul with sexual harassment/discrimination if things escalate. HR is your friend
      SO MUCH MORE TO DO!!
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      • xxx-Lost-Soul-xxx
        E30 Mastermind
        • Apr 2008
        • 1953

        #4
        Originally posted by ohthejosh
        Lesbians increases the attraction of douchebags. I say keep recording it but you can cry foul with sexual harassment/discrimination if things escalate. HR is your friend
        I work as a temp,Solar city uses local temp agency's to get tax brakes.
        I cant call corporate,because im a temp. Solar city keeps people as temps for up to a year i hear just to keep there pay down.

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        • Holland
          R3V OG
          • Nov 2008
          • 7176

          #5
          Originally posted by ohthejosh
          Lesbians increases the attraction of douchebags. I say keep recording it but you can cry foul with sexual harassment/discrimination if things escalate. HR is your friend
          I agree. AZ is a right to work state though, so they could can her anytime they feel like it. With that said, having documented and recorded incidents will help in a lawsuit.
          1985 M10b18. 70maybewhpoffury. Over engineered S50b30 murica BBQ swap in progress.

          Originally posted by DEV0 E30
          You'd chugg this butt. I know you would. Ain't gotta' lie to kick it brostantinople.

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          • xxx-Lost-Soul-xxx
            E30 Mastermind
            • Apr 2008
            • 1953

            #6
            Originally posted by Holland
            I agree. AZ is a right to work state though, so they could can her anytime they feel like it. With that said, having documented and recorded incidents will help in a lawsuit.
            They wont allow me to wear ANY of my piercings,BUT my supervisor has a sleeve. SERIOUSLY WTF? Ive also seen someone with a Mohawk.

            Btw ive only been given two shirts.ive been denied anymore,because im a temp. They wont give me anymore. Its like i have to wash these things everyday.

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            • ZM Blue Devil
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              • Dec 2006
              • 13836

              #7
              separate static noise from real issues...

              If he touches/touched you and or made any comments, it makes not difference if you are a temp or not.

              Leave your piercings, his sleeve, the number of tshirts, etc out of it.

              Message me if you need a good local HR person to talk to for advice/lawyer.
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              • xxx-Lost-Soul-xxx
                E30 Mastermind
                • Apr 2008
                • 1953

                #8
                Originally posted by ZM Blue Devil
                separate static noise from real issues...

                If he touches/touched you and or made any comments, it makes not difference if you are a temp or not.

                Leave your piercings, his sleeve, the number of tshirts, etc out of it.

                Message me if you need a good local HR person to talk to for advice/lawyer.
                pm sent.

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                • DEV0 E30
                  R3V OG
                  • Oct 2004
                  • 8816

                  #9
                  Originally posted by ZM Blue Devil
                  separate static noise from real issues...

                  If he touches/touched you and or made any comments, it makes not difference if you are a temp or not.

                  Leave your piercings, his sleeve, the number of tshirts, etc out of it.
                  Agreed.

                  Start bringing a hi-quality recording device (turn on, put in pocket) and catch him in the act a few times. It's clear this guy needs to be fired and worse. Put your foot down and be clear that you're not ok with the BS and if he continues at least you'll have proof this way.

                  How many times? It's like meth, not even once.
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                  • E30 Wagen
                    No R3VLimiter
                    • Jul 2005
                    • 3425

                    #10
                    Sounds like you just need to find a way to deal with your shitty supervisor. I know it's risky since you're a temp and it feels like they could fire you at any time, but I'd start being more serious about not letting this guy walk all over you. Is there anybody else higher up you could talk to? All it takes is just one little innocent comment that you feel like you're being sexually harassed by this dude and then things get serious, at least that's how it is where I work, two supervisors have been fired instantly for it.

                    When it comes to not being allowed some things like make-up, piercings, nail polish, there's really nothing you can do about that so suck it up.
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                    • xxx-Lost-Soul-xxx
                      E30 Mastermind
                      • Apr 2008
                      • 1953

                      #11
                      Originally posted by DEV0 E30
                      Agreed.

                      Start bringing a hi-quality recording device (turn on, put in pocket) and catch him in the act a few times. It's clear this guy needs to be fired and worse.

                      My android is good for recording stuff. The thing is its soo random when he does it toward me i never know. The dude has cancer and has like four years to live,so he makes his problems mine. I have a heart and feel for him,But i have a life.

                      His supervisor doesnt give a shit about anything. He wont answer my questions and just looks at me,like im a idoit.

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                      • QUKBMER
                        R3V OG
                        • Feb 2010
                        • 8178

                        #12
                        I had somepricks doing unlawful deductions from my paycheck manys years back and took them to the labor board and won. You can too if you have all the proof you need to prove them wrong. Screw them but you need to line your ducks up first then shoot them down in order and you will prevail on top.;) My sister was fired from her job in a sexual harassment suit,took them to court and won. She was being harassed by a new employee and they took his side saying "she was just being mean",she worked there for over 10 years and he was there 3 months. She was a asst manager/service writer at a honda dealer.
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                        • FredK
                          R3V OG
                          • Oct 2003
                          • 14747

                          #13
                          :/

                          Sorry to hear of your misfortunes. Hopefully justice prevails. If not, I recommend street justice. jk

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                          • Mr. Burns
                            No R3VLimiter
                            • Aug 2011
                            • 3516

                            #14
                            to answer you question, 1 time is 1 time too many.

                            this is bullshit.

                            nothing ever gives anyone the right to physically touch/grab anybody within an office/work environment.

                            remove the subjective work-wear complaints from this like ZMbluedevil said.

                            best of luck on either finding other work, or coming to a plausible resolution.
                            you don't deserve this.
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                            • carfantiti
                              Banned
                              • Mar 2011
                              • 790

                              #15
                              come on poor guy is dying give him a good blow job and jump on his knob.
                              j/k really though best thing first is to just talk to him and tell him.He probably just joking around thinks nothing of it.You need to say what ever his name is I don't like it if you touch me and curtain things you say can you please stop.If you don't tell him anything and than make a big deal out of it to me your to blame.Not every guy has bad intentions or is a perve he just might not no work boundaries. Give him one chance benifit of the doubt .If he does not respect you or still does it than you are justified.you say touching you is he just a touchy feely person or like joking.Or is he like grabbing your ass squeezing your boobs ,sticking his finger in your mouth when your talking.

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