Is it just me or all the younger women just..

[Mr. Burns]

solution.

show up at the club all like dis



mack up a honey and smack down the big guns with a sexy invitation for a ride in your whip all like dis


Cruise up to a KFC all like dis


Pull out a few hundo bills and be all like dis


Order a tub of creamy coleslaw and tell her to eat it all like dis


nightmares over...girls dig this.

I know.

and you're welcome

[Quinthirty]

If you don't know who you are, nor what you want, don't mess up somebody else's life by getting into a relationship with someone who equally doesn't know who they are and what they want either, unless you're still experimenting.

If you're going into a relationship only to "take" and don't want to "give," its not going to work out. Selfishness has no place in a relationship, unless you want a lopsided one. The one who gives will be sucked dry and the one who takes will never be contented. The dynamics and balance of giving is what keeps it going. I guess the more experienced ones know that one of the reasons why relationships fail, marriage or not, is that people get into one with a mindset of what they can get out of it---sex, money, house, car, etc., instead of what they can give.

Truth is, you can't give what you don't have either.

It doesn't really matter if you're young or old, its maturity that counts. Someone who was brought up in a loving environment, less materialistic, and knows the value of relationships, level headed, possesses a balance of love, ambition, and temperance, are more likely to be the keeper types. The "frustrating ones" mentioned here makes for good Instagram, Facebook, and bar talk. But that's as far as it will go. Physical beauty is a bonus as we all age anyway. But character, that's for a lifetime.

Meanwhile, just know yourself more, know what you really want out of life---career and all. Be the person you want to be go out and get to know more people. Then later, as you mature, you will eventually know and decide what kind of woman you want. More importantly you'll be ready yourself...

Give it a few years and enjoy.

[LJ851]

More like who can cook, is it me or is the REAL question here...
Why can women not COOK anymore, I know more men that can cook than women.

I am not with my girl for her cooking skills.

[1fastETA]

I'm not as young as you but at 30 when I go out with a girl one thing I do love is when she doesn't have to have her phone out at any point during the night. I have gone with some girls that still feel the need to keep texting randomly to all their friends through the evening, not a fan.

This is a good point, I hate when girls do that. I mean the point if going out with someone is to have a good time, enjoy the place where you choose to have dinner....actually get to know each other. I think it is fucked up to be talking to her and for her to be txting with her friends about stupid shit, or checking in on fb, tweeting, or the stupid Instagram picture of their dinner plate. That kind of behavior to me it just shows how insecure girls really are, or just seek approval of everybody else. Idk, girls are weird, but at the end I just give them a rough fucking. Ha!

[F34R]

1 of my girlfriends has been coming over everyday and altough it's cool I kinda see how it can get annoying now. I'm just use to being by myself and I like doing things alone, this shit is cutting into my fun time. I read how some of you don't like doing things by yourself but I do, it just depends on what as I hope that's what you all are saying too. Like eating out is nice with others, shopping waffleswaffleswaffleswaffles going with someone.

This is me in a nutshell^

I did the whole dating and seeing someone for a long time(5 years...). It is not for me, I do not desire to be married anytime soon or have a steady relationship.I love being alone and never having to deal with how their day went or what is wrong and why are you sad...save it lol. I take you out, enjoy a nice dinner or take in a movie etc. Then you go back to your life and I continue mine. I will settle down later, or if I find someone that 'completes me'.

More like who can cook, is it me or is the REAL question here...
Why can women not COOK anymore, I know more men that can cook than women. The last handful of women I was with could not even get past boxed garbage. At the very least know how to lightly toast bread and make a sandwich and some cold salad for a picnic or something.

[Dozyproductions]

The thought of getting married this young scares the piss out of me. What need is there for it? You may love someone, but things are always subject to change. Divorce is expensive. No one knows what they truly want in life in their late teens early 20's. I just can't imagine marrying and thinking about kids at this age. I should have been born a male, I'm way too selfish and don't even want to think about marriage or kids or anything that comes along with it.

Yeah, well, you know, that's just, like, your opinion, man. Not everyone is a redfox.

Welcome to the new R3V, guys!

Oh when a forum is a forum eh?

[///M42 sport]

My girlfriend just broke up with me :'(
She was my first girlfriend and it only lasted 3 months. She said i needed more experience with dating.

o well, maybe one day ill grow up

I don't think it's you, proy means she's dating other guys, esp if she's super hot.

[Hans Gruber]

Everything you need to learn young ones.

http://m.vevo.com/watch/jay-z/big-pimpin/USUV70703621?playonmobile=true#

[Thizzelle]

1 of my girlfriends has been coming over everyday and altough it's cool I kinda see how it can get annoying now. I'm just use to being by myself and I like doing things alone, this shit is cutting into my fun time. I read how some of you don't like doing things by yourself but I do, it just depends on what as I hope that's what you all are saying too. Like eating out is nice with others, shopping waffleswaffleswaffleswaffles going with someone.

[Redfox]

I could really care less to ever get married. I don't need government documentation to tell me I love someone, nor do I need the added expense or complication. Staying a couple is more simple and better off in the long run.

This.

If you've been together for a considerable amount of time, (more than a year or two) I can see talking about and discussing it, as long as there haven't been hiccups.. ie cheating, stealing, lying, what have you. Around my area, there are 18-23 year olds all getting knocked up after being together less than a year, and then marrying. All I can do is shake my head and laugh. It's pretty ridiculous. There isn't one who isn't collecting welfare or WIC or govt benefits for these kids they weren't ready for either.

[Holland]

To each their own I guess. Life's too short to be settled down that young imo.. Oh well. Divorce rates in this country tend to prove that.

I could really care less to ever get married. I don't need government documentation to tell me I love someone, nor do I need the added expense or complication. Staying a couple is more simple and better off in the long run.

[scabzzzz]

Welcome to the new R3V, guys!

[Redfox]

It affects guys and girls. I know plenty of men who want to settle down early in life.

To each their own I guess. Life's too short to be settled down that young imo.. Oh well. Divorce rates in this country tend to prove that.

[Holland]

The thought of getting married this young scares the piss out of me. What need is there for it? You may love someone, but things are always subject to change. Divorce is expensive. No one knows what they truly want in life in their late teens early 20's. I just can't imagine marrying and thinking about kids at this age. I should have been born a male, I'm way too selfish and don't even want to think about marriage or kids or anything that comes along with it.

It affects guys and girls. I know plenty of men who want to settle down early in life.

[Redfox]

heh, a lot of my friends are going this route and half of them already got married to crazy cool people. I guess time will tell no?

The thought of getting married this young scares the piss out of me. What need is there for it? You may love someone, but things are always subject to change. Divorce is expensive. No one knows what they truly want in life in their late teens early 20's. I just can't imagine marrying and thinking about kids at this age. I should have been born a male, I'm way too selfish and don't even want to think about marriage or kids or anything that comes along with it.