what would rev do

[Massive Lee]

Well, B-Saint, all I say is that she wasn't honest and open with you. But I don't think it's a reason to be angry. You could take even advantage of the situation to discuss the topic of honesty and opneness with her... Like the time you banged her best friend on your e30 hood in the garage, while your wife was doing the dishes in the kitchen... ;-)

[Raxe]

Don't worry man, everything is gonna be okay.

Just dance.

[Digital K]

I'd just make the chain shorter.

[Jand3rson]

Tell her every time you discover that she lied to you, you get to stick it in her butt.

[mrsleeve]

put security cams in the kitchen maybe ????????????

[bimmer_E30]

pics of wife or it didnt happen

[Inline Sex]

LOL next time I need advice I'm coming to r3v. Don't worry OP, this shit's getting solved TODAY, just keep reading.

[Kershaw]

thats rough man. but like everyone else is saying, it makes you wonder what else she has been hiding and keeping from you. i'd definitely be suspicious.

its not the cigs, although i wouldnt date a girl that smoked, but the lying like that. i wouldnt tolerate it.

[weedshoes]

I went through this same thing, but we weren't married and it wasnt oxy, it was robitussen (trashyyyyyyyyy) . It sucks dude. But you'll get through it. tell her you need her to take nicotine tests and opiate tests regularly if she wants you to trust her, also couldn't hurt to go through her phone. If she feels your invading, tell her that you need to know. Because you are beginning to doubt her as a fit wife. If she still says no, take your e30 and leave without saying anything. stay with a buddy and wait for her to call. DO NOT CALL HER! you need power.

[b*saint]

Lol I love the pull the chain closer comment. Well we're both just about 25. The worst part is what bothers me is even before we dated and we were just friend I always had a hard time trusting what she did because she would tell me and my friends one thing then you found out through the grape vine is wasnt true. I guess old habits die hard?? Im tired of puttng up with this shit. We've only been married since oct '09 but have dated for like 4 years. Its time for her to fucking grow up.

And I dont have pics of my wife lol. Once they hit wife status its no longer a trophy.

[Alkasquawlik]

Lol I love the pull the chain closer comment. Well we're both just about 25. The worst part is what bothers me is even before we dated and we were just friend I always had a hard time trusting what she did because she would tell me and my friends one thing then you found out through the grape vine is wasnt true. I guess old habits die hard?? Im tired of puttng up with this shit. We've only been married since oct '09 but have dated for like 4 years. Its time for her to fucking grow up.

And I dont have pics of my wife lol. Once they hit wife status its no longer a trophy.

Why would you marry her in the first place if you didn't trust her fully?

[der affe]

^BINGO!

i have my old roommate calling me all the time asking for advice on his relationship/marrige/seperation/getting back together again. they have only been married a year and she told him that she had cheated on EVERYONE of her former BF's before him. leopard does not change it's spots. i keep telling him to go with his gut feelings.

sort that shit out! if you can't trust her, your shit is doomed to fail.

[weedshoes]

she sounds like a bitch, and and exactly like the girl i dealt with

[fryerfighter94]

why was she out of the kitchen?

[SUICIDE109]

My mother is an alcoholic, she went to rehab last may and she frequently goes to AA meetings but yet she still drinks in secretcy (she drank a fifth of vodka a day.). What my brother and I would do if we found her Vodka bottles is put a little vinigar in the bottles to get a laugh or confront her about it and bitch her out, but yet she still drinks and now I just don't care its her choice. This is one reason why I leave for BCT for the Army Aug. 30th, my parents know I'm signed up but they think I'm going in to be a mechanic but actually I'm in the infantry.