in my specific example, there was a bit of luck and a whole lot of other people helping me out along the way to me finding my footing back in society
The small business owner who recognized that my talents were being wasted physically laying flooring and asked me to take a desk job doing estimates and materials orders took a chance and ignored the fact that I had a criminal record.
This is in sharp contrast to the small business owner who hired me to be a clerk in his grocery store and, regardless of how hard I worked, constantly treated me like shit because he knew that I would have difficulty finding a job elsewhere.
In fact, his store manager was the wife of the guy who taught me how to install carpet, vinyl, and wood flooring. He was the one who talked the owner of the flooring company into bringing me in for an interview.
So we have one asshole who hired me and exploited the shit out of me regardless of my productivity.
His store manager who said eff that I hate the way this store treats you go talk to my husband.
Her husband teaches me how to lay flooring. Talks to his friend and says there's this smart kid you should talk to him.
The flooring company owner calls me into his office and offers me a desk job at a really nice wage and tells me that my schooling comes first if there's an issue with scheduling.
I could have worked hard forever in that grocer position, or at least until I graduated from college (getting into college was a bit of hail mary but that's a different story altogether), and I wouldn't have become anything remotely close to the level of success I enjoy today. Circumstances outside my control played a larger role in my overall success in the opportunities afforded me.
The small business owner who recognized that my talents were being wasted physically laying flooring and asked me to take a desk job doing estimates and materials orders took a chance and ignored the fact that I had a criminal record.
This is in sharp contrast to the small business owner who hired me to be a clerk in his grocery store and, regardless of how hard I worked, constantly treated me like shit because he knew that I would have difficulty finding a job elsewhere.
In fact, his store manager was the wife of the guy who taught me how to install carpet, vinyl, and wood flooring. He was the one who talked the owner of the flooring company into bringing me in for an interview.
So we have one asshole who hired me and exploited the shit out of me regardless of my productivity.
His store manager who said eff that I hate the way this store treats you go talk to my husband.
Her husband teaches me how to lay flooring. Talks to his friend and says there's this smart kid you should talk to him.
The flooring company owner calls me into his office and offers me a desk job at a really nice wage and tells me that my schooling comes first if there's an issue with scheduling.
I could have worked hard forever in that grocer position, or at least until I graduated from college (getting into college was a bit of hail mary but that's a different story altogether), and I wouldn't have become anything remotely close to the level of success I enjoy today. Circumstances outside my control played a larger role in my overall success in the opportunities afforded me.
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