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  • Vince30
    R3VLimited
    • May 2009
    • 2318

    #16
    It always makes me mad when people kill them selfs, think of the kid he left be hind, who's mother will now have to explain to him that he was a mistake that made his/her real father kill himself, and im sure she cared about him too. Suicide is such a selfish act that hurts everyone around that person more than they could know. I am very sorry that you have to go through this. Its something that no one should have to deal with.

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    • Sailor37
      E30 Modder
      • Mar 2010
      • 985

      #17
      damn, dude...sorry

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      • F34R
        sLaughter
        • May 2009
        • 12385

        #18
        Sorry for your loss, but anyone that takes their life is a coward. My best bud took his life 3 years ago. So yeah I know how you feel.
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        • CarsSuck
          E30 Modder
          • Oct 2005
          • 968

          #19
          My sincerest condolences. I've lost a few friends this same way. The world is just a little too hard on young people these days. Its just such a shame that a person can get to that level and feel like they have no way out.
          --Will

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          • RondoAcapriccio
            E30 Addict
            • Jul 2011
            • 524

            #20
            Originally posted by Vince30
            It always makes me mad when people kill them selfs, think of the kid he left be hind, who's mother will now have to explain to him that he was a mistake that made his/her real father kill himself, and im sure she cared about him too. Suicide is such a selfish act that hurts everyone around that person more than they could know. I am very sorry that you have to go through this. Its something that no one should have to deal with.
            Originally posted by F34R
            Sorry for your loss, but anyone that takes their life is a coward. My best bud took his life 3 years ago. So yeah I know how you feel.
            I used to think like that too... but in the reverse maybe its selfish of you to think that person should not do that?? You never truly know how someone feels or the pain they go through. Some people break more easily than others, regardless unfortunate that he had a kid coming, and no I will never agree with someone taking their life(unless death is imminent or w.e), but I have a tougher mentality than most.
            Last edited by RondoAcapriccio; 01-07-2012, 09:19 AM.

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            • OldsCool
              Advanced Member
              • Jan 2009
              • 157

              #21
              sorry for your loss. i know that feeling :( one of my best friends died 4 years ago on christmas eve, he left behind his pregnant fiance. so wrong in so many ways

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              • Mr. Tasty
                No R3VLimiter
                • Jul 2011
                • 3421

                #22
                That sucks, my condolences, but were there no signs? He was your best friend.
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                • ohthejosh
                  R3V Elite
                  • Mar 2010
                  • 4963

                  #23
                  OP sorry for your loss. My condolences.

                  Originally posted by codyep3
                  That sucks, my condolences, but were there no signs? He was your best friend.
                  To be honest even if there are sign, a good amount of people would not take it seriously. Unless they were to be broken down on their knees screaming to die then its often disregarded until its too late. Its sad but true.
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                  • FunfGan
                    R3V Elite
                    • Jan 2011
                    • 4958

                    #24
                    Originally posted by RondoAcapriccio
                    I used to think like that too... but in the reverse maybe its selfish of you to think that person should not do that?? You never truly know how someone feels or the pain they go through. Some people break more easily than others, regardless unfortunate that he had a kid coming, and no I will never agree with someone taking their life(unless death is imminent or w.e), but I have a tougher mentality than most.
                    Taking your life is the ultimate act of selfishness. You are saying that your release from pain is more important than what you mean to your friends and family. It does not matter how strong a person they are, it is still selfish. But please, we don't need to discuss that in this thread.

                    OP, I'm deeply sorry about your loss, I can't imagine how that feels...


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                    • Pac1373
                      E30 Mastermind
                      • Feb 2008
                      • 1746

                      #25
                      Originally posted by RondoAcapriccio
                      I used to think like that too... but in the reverse maybe its selfish of you to think that person should not do that??
                      No, just No.

                      OP sorry for your pain, I agree with a Vince and F34R though. Selfish and just not right.
                      Originally Posted by ACMF74
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                      • Pac1373
                        E30 Mastermind
                        • Feb 2008
                        • 1746

                        #26
                        post fail, sorry.
                        Originally Posted by ACMF74
                        i clicked on this cuz i saw p3nis

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                        • Keith M
                          R3VLimited
                          • Nov 2006
                          • 2338

                          #27
                          I lost my mother and friend to suicide. Don't dwell on it too much but instead remember that person for what they were, not what they just did.

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                          • Cha Ching
                            E30 Mastermind
                            • Oct 2008
                            • 1668

                            #28
                            You sound like a good friend and a good guy. Sorry for your loss.

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                            • Kershaw
                              R3V OG
                              • Feb 2010
                              • 11822

                              #29
                              im sorry to hear that man.
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                              • dnick
                                E30 Fanatic
                                • Apr 2011
                                • 1377

                                #30
                                damn, im sorry bro.. thoughts are with with his loved ones and as keith said, remember that person for what they were, not what they just did

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