Girlfriend breaks up with you and two days later she hooks up with your best friend

[Pac1373]

Its just wack, i was in the "friend zone" for a solid year...and she didnt want anything to do with me relationship wise until i went to some party and hooked up with the chick..she texted me the next day and then soon enough were dating. i know her probably better then she does for the most part. we both got very close with eachothers family. we were super happy together and everyone saw that and thought that we were both close to perfect for eachother. it didnt feel like just another highschool relationship. it felt like alot more and we both knew that. we went through so much and we both started dating when both of our lives werent in the best spots. then she started acting a little weird, being more distant and wanted to do her own thing more..and i understood and respected that. and then she says she wants to breakup..she said she wants to have fun and meet people and basically wanting the single life. and then when we talked a couple days ago she didnt want me to leave, she told me how much she still misses me and loves me and wants what we had back. but honestly she just doesnt know what she wants. and she needs to figure that shit out before i get back together with her, if i do.

this statement proves that you are not as mature as a 30year old, you were raised to be co-dependent, and you really need to figure yourself out.



you say "everyone else thinks were so perfect for each other" really?

who is invested in that? who besides you and or her, REALLY give a shit if you are perfect for each other? honestly don't measure your relationships with false values placed on it by uninvolved parties, it only matters if the relationship is perfect for you and her. period.



as much as you want to blame the entire thing on her, you honestly sound so emotionally needy that most women would hold no respect for your floundering. man up, make decisions, stand by them. take CONTROL women really do want a "MAN" no shit, it's true.



you went through so much? you were both not at the best spots in your lives? dude, you both live at home and have no responsibility/accountability. you are what?18? you have no idea hombre.



if you want to be talked to like an adult, act like one.



sorry to come off as resoundingly harsh, but in the scope of the bigger picture, and you will someday realize this, this is nothing. you aren't supposed to be with your high-school GF, they are like training wheels for real relationships.



do yourself a favor and move to the next one, but as another poster said, get your shit straight first.

[Lof8]

LoL, my distain for women, is matched only by my desire to put my penis in them.

Much wisdom in this!

[trackjunkie21]

This thread is 19 pages too long.

[Mr. Burns]

She has beautiful eyes, and her hair smells like cinnamon!

can't really argue with solid facts like that...

[der affe]

ewww putting it ITB at that ripe age is simply a recipe for a spray of confetti like dingleberries.

OP, leave her a voicemail reading some Katy Perry lyrics, followed by a picture of some freshly cried tears pooling in your new fap receptical.

Then just be sure you use her bed. Leave her the mess.

[Wh33lhop]

Then just be sure you use her bed. Leave her the mess.

Don't forget to wipe it on her curtains.

[InuFaye]

also LOL Marriage.

good luck having someone leading you around for the rest of your life.

[slammin.e28]

also LOL Marriage.

good luck having someone leading you around for the rest of your life.

Fuck yeah, someone taking care of me. She already got my finances straightened out for me. I'm gonna be debt free (with the exception of my M3 loan and other loan) by Summer. BAM!

Then the M3 and my loan paid off in about two years. BAM!

Fuckkk yeah women!

Plus I get sex sex sex bro!

[der affe]

Don't forget to wipe it on her curtains.

No, they like it much better when you use their silky, cinnamon scented hair for that task.

[Kershaw]

true story.

[CW325]

who is invested in that? who besides you and or her, REALLY give a shit if you are perfect for each other? honestly don't measure your relationships with false values placed on it by uninvolved parties, it only matters if the relationship is perfect for you and her. period.


do yourself a favor and move to the next one, but as another poster said, get your shit straight first.

You just contradicted yourself. First you say to not base his relationship off other people and than you tell him to move on like everyone else is saying. So he should listen to you and everyone else but not the people who say theyre perfect together and actually know them???

[deutschman]

I like the fact that dumb threads like this that have absolutely nothing to do with anything BMW or even with cars in general seam to go on the longest and get the most traffic in the shortest amount of time.

[Deltron Dirty30]

I like the fact that dumb threads like this that have absolutely nothing to do with anything BMW or even with cars in general seam to go on the longest and get the most traffic in the shortest amount of time.

but its in the off topic section and its something a lot of guys can relate to, so of course its going to get a good amount of traffic.

[SUICIDE109]

I've gotten to a point where I just say, well fuck'em and continue on with life because I went to highschool about 3 years ago

[RawToast]

Ouchhhh god damn, I wouldn't wish what happened to you to my worst enemy. Keep your head up